We must not be intimidated by the past. We live now in the present and we should not inquire into our past. Perhaps we had better things just can not get over them but should! There is no "I can not" but there is "I do not want." My opinion is that we should live life, to leave everything behind. To be present now. There was a boy who was very upset because of his past and is extremely depressed every day. He was far, far away at last.